You’re always thinking about something. Often it’s negative. Dark is magnetic for at least three reasons: First, it’s likely you have a loud inner critic. Additionally, Psychologist Mihaly Csikszentimihalyi says, “… worrying is the brain’s default position.” Second, “Nothing is as important as you think it is while you’re thinking about it.” Daniel Kahneman . That means your loud inner critic and other negative thoughts seem more important than they really are. Third, Bad is stronger than good .